Van Horn Gay Days
You cannot so it seems have a get together of Van Horn
alumni of any size without eventually talking about the swimming pool at Van
Horn. There is always the talk of the
boys swimming nude and girls having to ware swim suits that had holes. The girls also suffered from the humiliation
of what I have heard one female alumnus refer to as the “nude parade” after
they showered.
I don’t remember feeling humiliated standing in the buff
lined up in the shower hall way leading to the swimming pool, in fact no one
really gave it much thought or so it seemed at the time. The one thing that is why in this day and age
of openness and acceptance such a thing would never happen and be fodder for
lawsuits towards school districts and accusations of teacher perversion. I mean wasn’t it more conservative back
then? Wasn’t modesty more
prevalent? Apparently not for we all got
naked and paraded around as instructed without any thought of impropriety.
Many years later a teacher at Northeast told me that since
our skinny dipping days that studies have shown that at least 5% of all
teenagers are Gay or at least lean in that direction and the practice was
stopped. If that is true I suppose the
percentage has not changed much and that means that in the 1965 graduating
class of more than 500 there were at
least 25 of our class mates when standing around naked with the same sex were
very uncomfortable and considered by officials as psychologically damaging.
I can honestly say that to this day I have no inkling of who
the 25 might have been. We had some
frail looking kids, some shy kids, and some kids that were just strange but to
consider them Gay or in those days we said queer or homo never even occurred to
me. The part that bothers me the most is
that those who were (and I suspect they were not the shy, frail, or strange
ones) must have suffered and done so in silence. What stress they must have gone through each
swim day or while taking the mandatory shower after PE.
Kids are more open and accepting today but I bet many kids still
suffer and think they are some kind of deviant and are picked on or bullied. School officials have recognized this problem
and have implemented programs and procedures to eradicate the tyranny of the
majority. I suspect the problem is becoming
less and less even though it would not seem like it if you were the target of
such harassment.
I don’t know what the swimming attire is now or how many of
the schools even have pools nor do I have any clue if showering after PE is mandatory. If I were to ask the school system I would
probably be put on a watch list of some sort and when I ran for president some
day my asking the question would be made public and the only support I would
receive would be from the Rainbow Coalition.
I live 50 yards from Crisp Lake, and I'm Not Gay, NTTAWWT....
ReplyDeleteMy brother forwarded me this post....as a gay 1974 grad I can say that the jocks postured, the frail/shy guys looked at the ground, and I didn't get any "thrill" out of it. Not that I was "out" at that point, but I had experience.
ReplyDeleteAnd my understanding is that are lots of stinky kids in classes as there is no mandatory showering after PE anymore.
Thanks for your post.